“What saves a man is to take a step. Then another step.”
– Antoine De Saint-Exupery
Does the prospect of changing and growing seem monumental to you? Just too much to tackle?
Then consider this approach. Take a simple step of affirming your openness to experience more or something new. Or a different first step might be to let go of judgment by embracing the neutral. Begin to see the people, activities and things around you as neither good nor bad.
A journey is made of many small steps. Don’t focus on a far-off destination if you’re not clear how to get there. Build a foundation that is solid for you. We get to new places one step at a time.
“You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.”
– Martin Luther King, Jr.
“One may walk over the highest mountain one step at a time.”
– John Wanamaker
To let go of the future means to let go of demands, insistence, attachment, requirements, having to have, control. It means tipping your hat to life. It means blessing it. It means having happiness in mind and not requiring how it is to be funneled. Continue reading →
i now truly believe, that we would always have other loves. other lovers, other partners. but true love is deeply engraved inside our hearts. that no matter how hard we try to erase it, it would only scar us even more. even if we polish our hearts, sooner or later, it will still stale and the scars we tried to wipe off will always show. true love is engraved in us. there is no running away from it. because then, it will only leave us feeling alone …in a world where we thought would be enough to compensate for the love we have always looked for all throughout our lives… Continue reading →
May you come to know, see, feel, and experience more and more of that world, which is your world, which is all that is real. May you come to accept, with unconditional love, non-judgment, and non-attachment all that tempts your five lower senses into believing the unreal as being real.
what follows the self sabotage, are temper tantrums, hurting another, flipping out, rebellious , chip on ones shoulder, about being willing to truly listen to whats being expressed to you, and through you. a complete and total neglagence towards the love of the being, a disregard for all life as it is, and a simple Continue reading →
i know how he feels he is lonely and doesnt know why he made a choice and wills to not face his silent cry. he seems to show me that he is happy but i can read him like a text book his heartbreak made him not to look at life with an open heart because his heart’s broken apart. we came together because we know with you and me, we would sow the promises we said to others the forever that gave us the shudders. we knew we werent making a melody the harmony we had was for everybody …to obey our hearts like we used to seemed wrong when they left us and that is the start of the end of me and you we couldnt hurt each other the way they hurt us we couldnt love like we did before so we built a life and so we soar… eveything we wanted to be… we became. but that wasnt fate nor destiny because we sought for fame. from the kingdom that we grew up in that’s the way it shouldve been. we became the best in our place and then we seem to be at the end of out phase we were blessed with everything we were given the chance to live all that we ought to be but never in romance because the melody sounds so off key. i love you. and i know you do too… and we know in our own way that love is here to stay. but that love… the love we have isnt what we long it is never enough to make our hearts laugh. but you and i… there is none because our hearts are with the “one” the one who got away that left us all lost and we stray …. trying to find our way back home trying to find the feeling that we’ve always known. with them. only with them. you and her. he and i. the one we promised forever the one that we only found worthy to cry. my best friend… i wish you would open your heart embrace the hurt and live off the edge of the mountain and love all the pain that only she can heal from the numbness that you both feel. i believe that distance never is a reason to put out the fire in your passion that you have tried to kill since that part is the remimnder of how you feel. a new love will give you life… but that life wouldnt have enough fire to spark your desire. live the part that was you and her continue to make more melody and set your soul free… i see you are alive inside if you ipen your heart wide. take the risk… i guarantee once she sees you unafraid and your heart on the line you made she will be at the other end.. with half of what you need to mend. she loves with the a love to last a lifetime if joy and pain that she will endure again because you are worth her tears if only yoh would be brave enough to mask those tears. you always have her heart i shouldve seen that right from the start but i was too blind to see my own so i seek solace from you and my comfort zone. we are all brought together for a reason and now i gathered enough season that learned to open my heart and do the imposible leap from numbness to being vulnerable it was the sweetest days if my life when i didnt think of whats to come even when things become shitty now those days give me a reason to smile somehow heal yourself, my friend days are longer if you pretend ….may you find what you are truly looking for may you find the widest door to your own heart not to hers because when you open yours…. her heart has always been there open your heart… and deliver the promise you made with each other. i would be happy if you break dowb your wall and when that day comes… then you will have it all time is not of importance just as long as finally know we all never really let go.